Comments on: ಅಪ್ಪ-ಅಮ್ಮ ಮತ್ತು ಜನರೇಷನ್ ಗ್ಯಾಪ್! http://abhayatalkies.com/2009/04/24/%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%aa%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%aa-%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%ae%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%ae-%e0%b2%ae%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%81-%e0%b2%9c%e0%b2%a8%e0%b2%b0%e0%b3%87%e0%b2%b7%e0%b2%a8%e0%b3%8d/ life rolls on Thu, 02 Sep 2010 15:04:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: ರಂಜಿತ್ http://abhayatalkies.com/2009/04/24/%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%aa%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%aa-%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%ae%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%ae-%e0%b2%ae%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%81-%e0%b2%9c%e0%b2%a8%e0%b2%b0%e0%b3%87%e0%b2%b7%e0%b2%a8%e0%b3%8d/#comment-507 ರಂಜಿತ್ Sat, 14 Nov 2009 09:53:03 +0000 http://abhaya.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-507 ತುಂಬಾ ತಡವಾಗಿ ನಿಮ್ಮ ಬ್ಲಾಗ್ ನೋಡ್ತಿದ್ದೇನೆ... ಈ ಬರಹ ಬಹಳ ಆಪ್ತವೆನಿಸಿತು. ಜನರೇಷನ್ ಗ್ಯಾಪ್ ಅಂದ್ರೆ ದೊಡ್ಡದೇನೂ ಅಲ್ಲ. ಸೂಕ್ಶ್ಮ. ಚಿಕ್ಕ ಬದಲಾವಣೆಗಳು, ಗ್ರಹಿಕೆ, ಚಿಂತನೆಗಳ ವೈವಿಧ್ಯತೆ ಅಷ್ಟೇ ಅಂತೇನೆ ನಾನು. ಬರಹ ಹಿಡಿಸಿತು. ತುಂಬಾ ತಡವಾಗಿ ನಿಮ್ಮ ಬ್ಲಾಗ್ ನೋಡ್ತಿದ್ದೇನೆ… ಈ ಬರಹ ಬಹಳ ಆಪ್ತವೆನಿಸಿತು. ಜನರೇಷನ್ ಗ್ಯಾಪ್ ಅಂದ್ರೆ ದೊಡ್ಡದೇನೂ ಅಲ್ಲ. ಸೂಕ್ಶ್ಮ. ಚಿಕ್ಕ ಬದಲಾವಣೆಗಳು, ಗ್ರಹಿಕೆ, ಚಿಂತನೆಗಳ ವೈವಿಧ್ಯತೆ ಅಷ್ಟೇ ಅಂತೇನೆ ನಾನು. ಬರಹ ಹಿಡಿಸಿತು.

]]> By: Praveen Kavoor http://abhayatalkies.com/2009/04/24/%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%aa%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%aa-%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%ae%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%ae-%e0%b2%ae%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%81-%e0%b2%9c%e0%b2%a8%e0%b2%b0%e0%b3%87%e0%b2%b7%e0%b2%a8%e0%b3%8d/#comment-298 Praveen Kavoor Mon, 04 May 2009 04:41:57 +0000 http://abhaya.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-298 Hi Abhaya, It was very touching a feeling which would come up mind of every son or daughter at around 30's. It is very difficult to analyze whether what you told is Time gap or generation gap. I am in a transition period period i'm in boot of dad as well son. Whenever i spend time with my son I realize how much my parents must have sacrificed, at times I feel every father must be trying hard bridge that gap that would fall in between them. At times you have to be tough Dad to mentor your child at the same time he would be worried whether this behavior of mine would create gap, he would be longing for nice relation with his child, I believe all these are more in son father relation than a daughter mother or father relation. Same a mother how bad she might be feeling when a new girl (wife) takes away her beloved son from her... this thoughts must be going on in every person except for those children below 24-2 Every person when he gets child he would always tries to improvise the relation what he has with parents... I think have written too long Hi Abhaya,

It was very touching a feeling which would come up mind of every son or daughter at around 30′s. It is very difficult to analyze whether what you told is Time gap or generation gap. I am in a transition period period i’m in boot of dad as well son. Whenever i spend time with my son I realize how much my parents must have sacrificed, at times I feel every father must be trying hard bridge that gap that would fall in between them. At times you have to be tough Dad to mentor your child at the same time he would be worried whether this behavior of mine would create gap, he would be longing for nice relation with his child, I believe all these are more in son father relation than a daughter mother or father relation. Same a mother how bad she might be feeling when a new girl (wife) takes away her beloved son from her… this thoughts must be going on in every person except for those children below 24-2 Every person when he gets child he would always tries to improvise the relation what he has with parents… I think have written too long

]]> By: shailaja http://abhayatalkies.com/2009/04/24/%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%aa%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%aa-%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%ae%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%ae-%e0%b2%ae%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%81-%e0%b2%9c%e0%b2%a8%e0%b2%b0%e0%b3%87%e0%b2%b7%e0%b2%a8%e0%b3%8d/#comment-297 shailaja Wed, 29 Apr 2009 17:35:27 +0000 http://abhaya.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-297 Dear Abhayappa, I remembered those days and wrote that writing, but don't mistake me I have understood the blog, it was not a comment for the blog but my response for it. lakalaka (abhaya used to call me by that name when he was 18 months old) Dear Abhayappa,

I remembered those days and wrote that writing, but don’t mistake me I have understood the blog, it was not a comment for the blog but my response for it.

lakalaka (abhaya used to call me by that name when he was 18 months old)

]]> By: Parameshwar Gundkal http://abhayatalkies.com/2009/04/24/%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%aa%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%aa-%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%ae%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%ae-%e0%b2%ae%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%81-%e0%b2%9c%e0%b2%a8%e0%b2%b0%e0%b3%87%e0%b2%b7%e0%b2%a8%e0%b3%8d/#comment-295 Parameshwar Gundkal Wed, 29 Apr 2009 14:26:47 +0000 http://abhaya.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-295 ಹೇಯ್! ತುಂಬಾ ಚೆನ್ನಾಗಿದೆ. ಆಪ್ತ ಬರಹ. ಹೇಯ್! ತುಂಬಾ ಚೆನ್ನಾಗಿದೆ. ಆಪ್ತ ಬರಹ.

]]> By: Ranjan Sham http://abhayatalkies.com/2009/04/24/%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%aa%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%aa-%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%ae%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%ae-%e0%b2%ae%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%81-%e0%b2%9c%e0%b2%a8%e0%b2%b0%e0%b3%87%e0%b2%b7%e0%b2%a8%e0%b3%8d/#comment-293 Ranjan Sham Wed, 29 Apr 2009 11:28:39 +0000 http://abhaya.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-293 i liked it. i agree difference in thinking is generation gap. "kaala dharma" is another name for generation gap. "kaala dharma" is term we use when things are not going by our control. 35-45 years from today we would probably call it " kaala dharama"! (probably but i doubt i would ever) i liked it. i agree difference in thinking is generation gap. “kaala dharma” is another name for generation gap.
“kaala dharma” is term we use when things are not going by our control.
35-45 years from today we would probably call it ” kaala dharama”! (probably but i doubt i would ever)

]]> By: Jayalakxmi http://abhayatalkies.com/2009/04/24/%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%aa%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%aa-%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%ae%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%ae-%e0%b2%ae%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%81-%e0%b2%9c%e0%b2%a8%e0%b2%b0%e0%b3%87%e0%b2%b7%e0%b2%a8%e0%b3%8d/#comment-291 Jayalakxmi Mon, 27 Apr 2009 13:26:57 +0000 http://abhaya.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-291 generation gap bagge neenu baredaddu hrdayasparshiyaagide...appa illige bandiddaaga naavella ottige elliyaadruu hodre nanguu haage ansutte....ontharaa besaravaaguttade generation gap bagge neenu baredaddu hrdayasparshiyaagide…appa illige bandiddaaga naavella ottige elliyaadruu hodre nanguu haage ansutte….ontharaa besaravaaguttade

]]> By: Pramod http://abhayatalkies.com/2009/04/24/%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%aa%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%aa-%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%ae%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%ae-%e0%b2%ae%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%81-%e0%b2%9c%e0%b2%a8%e0%b2%b0%e0%b3%87%e0%b2%b7%e0%b2%a8%e0%b3%8d/#comment-290 Pramod Mon, 27 Apr 2009 03:57:18 +0000 http://abhaya.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-290 Nice.. touching...very real.. Nice.. touching…very real..

]]> By: ranjanahegde http://abhayatalkies.com/2009/04/24/%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%aa%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%aa-%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%ae%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%ae-%e0%b2%ae%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%81-%e0%b2%9c%e0%b2%a8%e0%b2%b0%e0%b3%87%e0%b2%b7%e0%b2%a8%e0%b3%8d/#comment-289 ranjanahegde Mon, 27 Apr 2009 03:02:25 +0000 http://abhaya.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-289 tamma chitra panorama vibhagakke ayke adudakke shubhashayagalu. generation gap namma mattu namma tande tayiyaralli, namma mattu namma makkalallu heege munduvriyuttale hoguttade anta anisuttide.... wishes Ranjana tamma chitra panorama vibhagakke ayke adudakke shubhashayagalu. generation gap namma mattu namma tande tayiyaralli, namma mattu namma makkalallu heege munduvriyuttale hoguttade anta anisuttide….
wishes
Ranjana

]]> By: ಅಶೋಕವರ್ಧನ http://abhayatalkies.com/2009/04/24/%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%aa%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%aa-%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%ae%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%ae-%e0%b2%ae%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%81-%e0%b2%9c%e0%b2%a8%e0%b2%b0%e0%b3%87%e0%b2%b7%e0%b2%a8%e0%b3%8d/#comment-288 ಅಶೋಕವರ್ಧನ Sun, 26 Apr 2009 14:23:31 +0000 http://abhaya.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-288 ಶೈಲಗನವರ್ ಆಡನ್ನು ‘ಸಿಂಹ’ ನೋಡುವ ಚಿತ್ರದಿಂದ ಪ್ರೇರಿತಳಾಗಿ ಕುನ್ನಿ ಸಾಕಣಾ ಬಯಕೆ, ರೆಪೆರೆ (ಬಾಲಭಾಷೆಯಲ್ಲಿ ರಿಪೇರಿ), ಅವಿಯ ಒಡನಾಟ, ಇಳಾನ ಜನನ, ಓಣಿ ಪಡೆಯ ನಾಯಕತ್ವ ಇತ್ಯಾದಿ ನೆನಪಿನೋಣಿಯಲ್ಲಿ ಕಳೆದು ಹೋದಳು. ಆದರೆ ಇಲ್ಲಿ ತಲೆಮಾರಿನ ಅಂತರ ಗುರುತಿಸಲು ಅಡಿಕೋಲು ಹಿಡಿದದ್ದು ಅವಸರವಾಯ್ತೂಂತ ಗ್ರಹಿಸಿದಂತಿಲ್ಲ! ಕಾಲಧರ್ಮದ ಬದಲಾವಣೆಗಳು ತಲೆಮಾರಿನ ಅಂತರ ಎಂಬ ಭಾವಾರ್ಥಕ್ಕೆ ಪೂರಕವಲ್ಲ ಎಂದೇ ನನ್ನ ಭಾವನೆ. ಅಭಯನಪ್ಪ ಶೈಲಗನವರ್ ಆಡನ್ನು ‘ಸಿಂಹ’ ನೋಡುವ ಚಿತ್ರದಿಂದ ಪ್ರೇರಿತಳಾಗಿ ಕುನ್ನಿ ಸಾಕಣಾ ಬಯಕೆ, ರೆಪೆರೆ (ಬಾಲಭಾಷೆಯಲ್ಲಿ ರಿಪೇರಿ), ಅವಿಯ ಒಡನಾಟ, ಇಳಾನ ಜನನ, ಓಣಿ ಪಡೆಯ ನಾಯಕತ್ವ ಇತ್ಯಾದಿ ನೆನಪಿನೋಣಿಯಲ್ಲಿ ಕಳೆದು ಹೋದಳು. ಆದರೆ ಇಲ್ಲಿ ತಲೆಮಾರಿನ ಅಂತರ ಗುರುತಿಸಲು ಅಡಿಕೋಲು ಹಿಡಿದದ್ದು ಅವಸರವಾಯ್ತೂಂತ ಗ್ರಹಿಸಿದಂತಿಲ್ಲ! ಕಾಲಧರ್ಮದ ಬದಲಾವಣೆಗಳು ತಲೆಮಾರಿನ ಅಂತರ ಎಂಬ ಭಾವಾರ್ಥಕ್ಕೆ ಪೂರಕವಲ್ಲ ಎಂದೇ ನನ್ನ ಭಾವನೆ.
ಅಭಯನಪ್ಪ

]]> By: Hemashree http://abhayatalkies.com/2009/04/24/%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%aa%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%aa-%e0%b2%85%e0%b2%ae%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%ae-%e0%b2%ae%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%8d%e0%b2%a4%e0%b3%81-%e0%b2%9c%e0%b2%a8%e0%b2%b0%e0%b3%87%e0%b2%b7%e0%b2%a8%e0%b3%8d/#comment-287 Hemashree Sun, 26 Apr 2009 03:02:23 +0000 http://abhaya.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-287 Abhaya, it was indeed an apt feeling reading through this ! i recalled some of my similar experiences with my parents. Abhaya,

it was indeed an apt feeling reading through this !
i recalled some of my similar experiences with my parents.

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